Posts by Dara Kurtz
Rock, Paper, Scissors
This morning, Jon and I were both in bed, and our alarm clocks had just gone off. Neither of us wanted to get out of bed. I’ve already expressed to you how painful it is for us to get up in the morning, so this shouldn’t surprise you. We’re almost like teenagers when it comes…
Read MoreMy Brother Filled My Mom’s Car up with Water
Today is my brother, Ari’s, birthday. He’s forty-one today, which still makes me his older, wiser sister. We’ve gone through a lot together, and I know how blessed I am to have him in my life. Here’s the thing about siblings: they’re the only people in the world who grew up in the same household…
Read MoreInstead of Laughs, I got the Middle Finger
A few weeks ago, because of school conferences, my kids didn’t have classes. I was so looking forward to spending time with them. I cleared my calendar to make sure I was available for a lazy, fun, and relaxing day together. I didn’t want anything to get in the way of our day. Our special…
Read MoreDon’t Judge the Mom in the Carpool Line Wearing Pj’s
I’m not a morning person. I’ve never been one, I’ll never be one, and I accept this about myself. Finally. For awhile there, I would have the same conversation with Jon every night when we went to bed, “We have to get up early tomorrow,” I would say, “I’m tired of rushing. Let’s just get…
Read MoreYou Can’t Win If You Don’t Play
I almost crushed my daughter’s dream. In my quest to protect her, I almost shut it down before she even had a chance to achieve it. I’m a dream killer, or an almost dream killer, and I didn’t even know it. That is, until now. Last year, Zoe ran for Treasurer of the SGA at…
Read MoreI Miss My Mom
I Miss my Mom. Just four little words that come together to form a sentence. There’s no possible way these four words can begin to describe the incredible pain and emptiness I’ve carried with me since my Mom passed away, almost sixteen years ago. I haven’t seen her in sixteen years. I haven’t hugged her,…
Read MoreSlow Down, You Move too Fast
As Mom’s we have a lot to juggle: our families, our homes, our lives. We rush around doing everything for everybody, moving from one commitment to another. It’s easy to let life sort of “get in the way.” Especially this time of year. But take a moment to look at the big picture, and recognize…
Read MoreBathroom Business: How I Almost Burned Down a Building
I’m not sure what the deal is lately, but it seems like every time I’m with a group of women, somehow we start talking about our bathroom business. Charming, I know. Maybe it’s our age, but it seems like a lot of women are struggling in this area. Fortunately, I don’t have any problems with…
Read MoreBald and Beautiful
The other day I was at Whole Foods, shopping for groceries and spending a small fortune. I was walking through the produce department when I stumbled upon an adorable family: mom, dad, baby in a separate cart in a baby carrier and a child around three or four. The little girl was running around and determined…
Read MoreWhat A Difference a Year Makes
This past weekend the calendar went from April to May. But it wasn’t just another month for me. This year, as I suspect every May will be for the rest of my life, I remember. And I remember it well. Perhaps, it’s because this is the first time the calendar has gone full circle. And…
Read More